Showing posts with label question. Show all posts
Showing posts with label question. Show all posts

Monday, January 24, 2011

20 questions minus 11

So here we are on day 2 of the 10 day adventure that we are taking. Yesterday the question about the reason of why men cheat....once again I will say ALL MEN DO NOT CHEAT!!!  Now that we have cleared that up shall we move on to the next question???

Disclaimer: I am not an expert only answering from experience and the experience of others

How is it easy for men to say all the right things but don't mean it??
To start I will keep this shall we say tastefully raunchy Adult (go ahead and try to stop me). All's fair in love and war; every team has a home-field advantage in which they can achieve extreme success. In all fairness woman are able to have men think whatever when it comes to the idea of sex; a woman can make her man think he is better than any pornstar or the best she ever had (yes that was a Drake reference). Now more seriously it is both fortunately and unfortunately that men are able to say what some women want to hear.  The main reason is that this type of man knows what strings to pull or buttons to push with women to get his end result.  Sometimes men are able to take advantage of women who are vulnerable, or the man has mastered this craft (that is not a pun) or possibly just maybe he really means all those right things.

Once again enjoy, read, comment, and implore others to read and do the same.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

20 questions minus 10

"Why is it that men lie and cheat? Why be in a relationship if not ready?"

Pretty interesting question right; I would stake my reputation that lets say 4 of 5 5 of 5 women have asked this question.  And what is the reason behind this question you ask;SEE WHAT HAD HAPPENED WAS.....
a friend of mine had been answering the questions of women via video and sent me a few he could not get to.  Unfortunately my camera has not been working so instead of speaking I will be typing. I have 10 questions to answer and for the next 10 days I will be answering them. DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT ALWAYS RIGHT JUST 89% OF THE TIME AND I AM NOT AN EXPERT JUST EXPERIENCED.

Now back to the question above (opinions to the answer may vary)
Why is it that men lie and cheat? Why be in a relationship if not ready?   
          Well not all  have this trait and the trait is usually reserved for the romantically/intimately immature.  Many times cheating come from lust and/or opportunity.  The woman that a man cheats with will either do things his girlfriend or wife will not do, the woman he is cheating with was considered unattainable or he just has no respect for the woman and the commitment (which may hint at some deeper insecurity and so forth and so on). The lie is simple he does not want to be caught or if there is a sliver of guilt he does not want to hurt the one he is with.  The reason that males jump into relationships unprepared is to keep from losing what he enjoys; now this is more than just him being able to readily have sex when he wants but just the feeling of knowing that this woman has his back.  The other reason sometimes men think that they are ready for it and unknowing to their conscious mind they are not; the issue for this can be good or bad but still unresolved.  Now with all of this said, not all men cheat just those who are unable to grasp the idea of one woman and one man. 

Now that question one is down look out for the other nine and if you have a question please feel free to leave a comment and ask it and I'll be sure to answer to the masses.