Numero 3 y 4

Yes the title was my little skill in the Spanish language....Now that I have explained that I will apologize for not giving you something to read yesterday. Today/Tonight there will be a treat for your indulgence and that is 2 scoops of our current topic.

Disclaimer: I am not an expert just merely giving my advice from experience of myself and others.

3. Are men able to decipher between a good real woman and a promiscuous woman? If so how? Do we(women) show signs?
      This is a difficult question because each man and his perception of women will be different and each culture/ethnicity of woman is different.  I believe this whole heartedly, a real good man can see a real good woman period.  When he does something happens when he meets her, there is no second thought of who she is, he becomes a man better than the one he knew he could be and all the while she has the same transformation; the two of them mesh together with ease. A promiscuous woman only satisfies a portion of a man, one that does not lead him to a greater good where as a real good woman will satisfy a man as a whole.  As far as spotting these floozies (yes I did say that lol) it is often easy but sometimes difficult because even a wolf can wear sheep's clothing. 

4. It has been said by many men that African-American woman are too strong-minded and often neglect to allow a man to be a man. How do men want their women to act in a relationship?
           I will agree with this statement but with explanation. Yes most African-American women are quite strong-minded, there is nothing wrong with that because in most cases these type of women want a man that is going to match her and I will go as to say gain some control. Honestly men would like their women to act as women and let men act as men. This is easier said than done for women who have been raised to be strong-minded/willed. Unfortunately African-American households are the highest rated in single parent led, what does this mean for our women? Well when a mother who is strong passes these traits down and if she has a daughter then she too will grow up to be as strong as her mother and any other woman that was positive in her life; this in turn creates the women we are speaking of now. This particular woman learns to live without a man but has a hard time living with a man or letting the man be a man. No good man wants his woman barefoot, pregnant without dreams that is real.

*there is an exception to every rule and every group



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-Wise Craft