Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Friday, January 28, 2011

For the sake of real love

                                                                                            

REAL LOVE!!




His Angel
How many of you fellas can say that you've experienced true love? Not just any love, real love. The kind of love that only a real woman can offer to a man. This love is very unique. Its in a class of its own. It can be just as and in some cases stronger then the love you have for yourself. It will make you do things you have never done, I will make you grow as an individual, and it can save you. For those fellas that don't believe that this kind of love is not likely to affect you, you are sadly mistaken. This love will find its way to you when you lease except it. I am a living testament to this phenomenal feeling. I was at my lowest when God decided to send me my true love. Little did I know that the woman God sent had been through just as much as hell and tribulations as I did. Both broken and on the verge of giving up, we decided to take a chance and step out on faith. I had no idea that I was going to fall for her the way I did. She took me in, a complete stranger, and accepted me for who I was. She believed in my dreams and has help to keep them alive. I have never had this much love and support for one person. She gave the two things I've always wanted, a dedicated woman and a family. I owe my life to the woman that holds my heart dearly. She never once asked for anything in return. All that she has done was from the kindness and generosity of her heart. To have a woman hold you down like this is, what man wouldn't want that? Not once has she done me wrong, strayed away, or betrayed our love. She is perfection in my eyes. It is as if God sent one of his angels to earth to reform me in his image, to use us as an example to show that no matter how many obstacles try to hinder the love he has placed in your heart, it will always find a way to triumph and be victorious. For those of you how do know what I'm talking about, ask yourself, what would you do to hold on to the connection you have with your true love? Any and everything, right? I know for damn sure that I'm not letting anything or anyone come between me and the love of my life ever again. whatever you are doing to keep you love strong, continue to do so.
The Man

Written by Jonathan Williams For Nekita Jackson

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Dynamics what is their job?

The best part of having friends as a self-proclaimed writer is the inspiration that you draw from them. For instance a few of us gathered together one night for a while and had a chance to converse.....and enjoy a "beverage" or two.  All having experienced similar yet different upbringings (although all of our parents know one another) and different experiences of love and life the conversation was easily steered.  Being the individual I am, I tried to course the direction to my liking not realizing that conversations of men and women about our dynamics do not follow course but become a living being of its own.  The conversation grew into an experience that would leave me mentally exhausted with a couple of my senses overloaded.
The conversation began talking about Steve Harvey's book, although it was a best seller, it does catch some flack for some of its ideas.  (I have not read it so I cannot say good or bad)  The conversation was initially easy to control for one question led to another with intelligent and viable opinions but it was when the conversation took a turn for the more sexual did I lose control ,becoming more of a spectator rather than participant, as this snowball began to roll.  I say spectator because the dynamics of the people (four males and two females) shifted just enough for actions and responses to be noticed more overtly.  Comments became more personal rather than open ended with a pseudo generalization and even more directed.  Actions became more animated with just enough detail for a silhouetted mental visual and engaged attentiveness became stolen glances.    
So did the dynamics between the men and women in this conversation change because of the conversation about the dynamics of men and women?!?! Of course it did and do you blame it, lets be honest you have two attractive sistahs and two well groomed single brothas that enjoy women in every way.  SO what is this post about simply that no matter what anyone says there will always be an underlining reason for men and women be them black, white, puerto-rican, etc to talk about relationships, sex and love.  Is this to say that women and men cannot discuss these topics without have an ulterior motive; who am I to say but from observation I will say its possible but not often likely because in the end we all want to impress someone with our intellect and thoughts, whether it is ourselves or others especially in the matters of of the heart...Hell why do you think I do it LOL.